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Want to learn how to ask for a girls number? Then this article will give you the last techniques you’ll ever need to learn. Whether you want to get a girl’s number online or face-to-face, there are “best practices” to be followed, and they’re all here. First off, let’s address the key challenge. Why is it so hard to ask for a girl’s number? It all boils down to two reasons: The best way how to ask for a girl’s number should address both these challenges at the same time....

You’ve identified that your mother is a narcissist. Maybe you’ve known this for several years, or perhaps you’re just now putting the pieces together. Either way, you have a fitting label for all the chaos your mother has added to your life. As a narcissist, she puts her needs before others, and she seemingly has no problem manipulating others to get what she wants. It’s not surprising that her childish behavior can leave you feeling incredibly frustrated, sad, and even confused....

You have been seeing a girl. Things were going great, or at least you felt so. One day, she stops texting. Do you recognize yourself in this story? I bet yes. Most probably, because it is more common than you’d think. Maybe you are asking yourself: “She’s not texting me like she used to. What did I do wrong? What do I do now?”. No worry,you are not alone. I was very excited, after the date we kept talking every day until one moment when she stopped texting me… I tried to ask her out again but she was very cold and distant....

Let’s take, for example, double texting. Nowadays, double-texting a guy is labeled as something unattractive or clingy. This is a type of stigma that is slowly starting to change and double-texting isn’t seen as taboo. Indeed, double-texting isn’t always the best idea but there are some specific cases that it will be a game changer. Double-texting isn’t an option if his last text indicates that he’s not that interested or needs some time to reflect....

What are the best comebacks to “shut up”? Being told to keep your mouth shut will always sting, no matter what the situation is. There’s something against being silenced that feels unjust, and you wish you could get a bit of revenge with your words. Actually, in some situations, you should speak up. It’s been found that, in certain situations, holding your tongue can be more destructive than giving a comeback....

All narcissists value adoration, praise, and validation. They all struggle or completely lack empathy for others, and they inadvertently hurt people with their selfish actions. Malignant narcissists, on the other hand, intentionally and actively harm others. They’re more likely to use force and violence to meet their needs. A malignant narcissist tends to lash out frequently with no regard for how their actions impact others. They may be hostile, threatening, or downright violent....

Why would a husband or wife be jealous of their own children? (Leo Rosten, introducing W.C. Fields at a dinner) A parent with Narcissistic Personality Disorder who has children opens up a world of damage and abuse to them. Some narcissistic parents are possessively close to their children when they are small, as their children can be a source of self-esteem. Reasons Why Narcissists are Jealous of their Children However, as their children grow and become more independent, the narcissistic parent may feel jealous of the child (or children)....

If parenting is challenging, and co-parenting is even more difficult, then co-parenting with a narcissist can almost seem like an absolutely impossible order. Of course, you want what’s best for your children. You want them to feel supported and loved. That said, dealing with a narcissistic co-parent often adds tremendous complications. Believe it or not, balance is possible. You can learn how to set boundaries, avoid being manipulated, and act as a healthy role model for your children....

And now, because of this, you start to wonder whether it is your problem, or if it was something you said or did. The immediate reaction is to doubt yourself. Thus, putting more importance on him than on yourself. However, there are other reasons why he is pulling away, and it is not just you. Here are 17 reasons why he is distant but still texts: 1. He is going through a change in how he feels about you The back-and-forth exchange between the two of you has made him change his mind....

How do you really, actually, honestly text in the early stages of dating?! The shortest answer to that is: keeping it genuine. Some start texting before dating, some after; some do it right, some do it wrong; and all that is very understandable. Not having a clue what you’re doing while texting, especially during the very early stages of dating, or even a relationship, is the next ‘very understandable’. There’s too much pressure: you want to keep them interested, so do you show them your crazy, do you show them your texting generosity, do you do you?...

Being covered up in confusion you wonder whether you should talk to your ex after the breakup or if you should be distant for some time (e.g. going No Contact for 30 days at least). There are a few elements to be checked before you make this decision. Reflect on your situation. Ask yourself what was the reason that led to your breakup; Was it that bad that would imply a low rate of getting back together?...

You’re exhausted and angry, and you are finished with feeling disrespected by the narcissist in your life. Maybe you have identified that what you’re doing isn’t working, and you’re ready for a different approach. Or perhaps you’re ready to start setting healthy boundaries and develop better relationships. But is ignoring a Narcissist a good idea? What do narcissists do when you ignore them? And if you choose to change your interaction patterns, how can you ensure that you’re protecting your self-worth and well-being at the same time?...

You can find its meaning just by reflecting on his interaction with you. To be more specific, its meaning depends on the reason you broke up and on his attachment style. When an ex tells you to move on they might be pretending to be over you. Now, they want you back so they decide that they will use reverse psychology. You’ll notice that their actions won’t match their words....

Many individuals experience divorce in different ways. Some choose to communicate due to mutual duties whereas others choose to go No Contact so they can cope with the pain and maybe turn the tables around. The aim of No Contact during or after divorce is not to push you to make any more mistakes or to lack communication. One main thing that you can achieve while using No Contact is to go through this hard period and reflect on your relationship....

If you have never suffered from anxiety you are lucky and I envy you. An accepted definition of anxiety involves elements of uncontrolled fear of events or event which simultaneously overwhelms and causes a person to freeze or assume frenetic activity to prevent the feared consequences from happening. For example, a person with social phobia would normally exhibit elements of anxiety when asked to meet new people or enter a room full of people whom they know they were expected to talk to....

One of the most powerful natural abilities that women possess is intuition, they just know things! So if a man you’re talking to is into you, you’ll know, because you’ll sense it. But why can’t he make life easier for the both of you and just tell you how he feels? Well, there are several reasons for this, and one of the most prevalent is that men are just not good at expressing their emotions....

Should you confront a narcissist? What happens if you do confront him or her? Does the proverbial kitten really turn into a lion? Answers to those questions depend on the circumstances and the people involved. Before you decide to confront someone with a personality disorder, you need to ask yourself,”What is the outcome I am hoping for?” Why Would You Confront a Narcissist? If you have just discovered that your partner or parent is a narcissist, you may have a strong urge to confront them with that information in the hopes that they will recognize themselves in what you describe and be remorseful for the pain they have caused....

At that moment we tend to romanticize the idea of our ex rather than reflect on them. Hence, can we say that getting back with an ex never works? That’s not true. It depends on the reason that you broke up. If it was fixable then that’s not a disadvantage. Every relationship and situation is different. It all depends on both of your personalities and how the breakup happened. The main thing is to not let yourself go through the same situation or repeat the same mistakes....

The moment you ask the question: Does the No Contact Rule work? Most of us, including me, think Do I get my ex back after that? Remember that the No Contact Rule is a clean and healthy pattern that helps you to heal from the breakup and give you and your ex some space to reflect on your relationship. It is a pretty confusing period. Just know yourself for what you went No Contact: To reconcile or to move on!...

These signs will send to you a lot of mixed vibes and you’ll always end up in confusion. An ex pretends to be over you because they might be angry, hurt, too proud to admit their feelings, or they are confused. The dumpees have it hard to pretend that they are over you. They do it only because they want to protect themselves from being hurt or manipulated. When an ex is completely over you they do not aim to stay in touch....