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Once, it’s broken, you won’t know what and how to feel anymore. That’s why the process of healing after being cheated on takes longer than healing from a casual breakup. You are hurt, your self-esteem is low, and you are constantly overthinking. It is quite understandable that you will ask yourself, what happened along the way or what did you do wrong. You are emotionally exhausted and will go through mixed emotions such as anger, rage, anxiety, loneliness, and jealousy too....

It’s all about pushing naturally some buttons to add some flavor to your relationship. A healthy dose of jealousy helps in keeping the spark alive and sorting your feelings out. If you want to know how to make him jealous: first, should know what he feels about you. Add to it the impact of his last relationship. Be confident and embrace your true self. Use subtle ways to make him jealous and grab his attention....

Is your boyfriend attracted to Transwomen, and you don’t know what to do? A man who dates women and takes pride in his masculinity isn’t going to admit he’s attracted to trans women. He won’t tell his friends or the woman he’s dating. His secret will be kept strictly between him and his four walls. The only reason you found out is probably that you caught him looking at trans women porn or found some incriminating evidence in his wallet....

Q: I was raised by a narcissistic mother. She exhibited all the traits you discuss here. I am 36 and I have not spoken to her in 7 years. However I find that her treatment still affects me. She was very disapproving of every choice I ever made. I got married young, that was bad and therefore I was bad. I dropped out of college and went to work instead and that was bad....

The narcissism blogosphere has been discussing it for years. Rehab clinics are offering treatment courses for it. Yet many psychologists haven’t even heard of it. So what is narcissistic abuse syndrome? Well, it’s a term used to describe the common symptoms experienced by victims of narcissistic abuse. It’s also sometimes also called “narcissistic victim syndrome”, or “narcissistic victim abuse syndrome”. Although narcissistic abuse syndrome sounds like a clinical diagnosis, it’s not an official condition....

Q: Why do narcissists hold sex and affection from you A: Narcissists withhold sex and affection as a means of controlling you. If you said or did something they didn’t approve of, they withhold sex and/or affection to punish you. Some narcissists also withhold as a means of “torturing” you, making you question them repeatedly or beg them ( not just for sex, but to understand why they are doing it- you will likely not get an answer unless it is further berating)....

You might find yourself caught up in confusion but you will try to look forward at the same time. Your ex might not constantly mention their ex or be distant but there is some type of void that makes you wonder. When you are dating on the rebound, your partner seems to progress things faster. This fast progression can make you confused. That doesn’t mean you won’t be happy to upgrade your relationship....

You just want to enjoy long walks on the beach, be in each other’s presence, and have a good time. What makes this situation more difficult is the long-term uncertainty that makes you feel stuck. You’re stuck in that enjoyment but don’t know whether you’re progressing as a couple or not. At times, this situation can be pretty frustrating and complex. To make it easier, this article will help you know the signs and make a distinction between...

Sometimes, the first date is the hardest of them all because you have that need like you need to figure out everything. You might feel and think that everything went great but that might be from your perspective. That’s why you need at least a couple of hours to zone out from those overwhelming emotions. After doing it then you can follow a few tips and use some text samples, to get a second date....

You may be next to each other and still not have a sense of closeness if both of you lack emotional connection. This means that you can create an emotional connection and strengthen the bond despite the miles. It is the effort that you put into that relationship combined with fun, romantic, and creative activities that you can have. The key is to keep the flame alive. Maintaining healthy habits of texting is one important thing, but sometimes it might get tiring, scary, and even confusing but if you try to keep that spark alive with these ideas, it’ll be far from boring....

Recently a friend of mine shared a quite long story (which I enjoyed), but by the end of it she hit me with the “So, what do you think, does he love me?” I nodded, to confirm a positive answer to her question, just so that she could hit me with “Yes, but does he really love me?!” I paused for a sec but then I took my time to find parts of her story to show her in detail....

You had been waiting for his text for quite some time, and at some point, you gave up on it because you thought it just wouldn’t come. Now when you open your messaging app, you see the red dot indicating that you still haven’t opened the message yet, not knowing what to do. A bit of panic, self-doubt, a roll of emotions, and questions hit you altogether. Don’t worry, we have all been through a similar experience....

The clash of hope and anxiety leads to uncertainty and raises the question what if he doesn’t contact me? That all depends on the dynamic of the relationship that you had. If you had a bad breakup, if you chose to stay friends, or if there was no closure at all. Once you accept the breakup, it will be easier for you to maintain the situation. You will still feel the urge to contact your ex but slowly you will gain control over the situation....

It’s completely fine to feel confused and wonder if you’re just panicking and dealing with post-breakup anxiety. You might be exhausted because their behavior can be quite uncertain and tiring. Being mistreated comes reflects also how they feel at the moment about you and their attachment style. To cut the breadcrumb and the stress that your ex causes you, you should take a step back and reflect. Are they being mean or they’re dead serious about their decision?...

Have you just broken up with your boyfriend and now you miss him like crazy? You thought since things weren’t working out, and you were losing interest, you’d put an end to the relationship and go your separate ways? But now you deeply regret it, you’re hoping that you’ll get back together, but he doesn’t seem in the least bit concerned about rekindling things. You’ve called him several times, he either doesn’t answer the phone or sounds indifferent when he does....

Every ex will go through the breakup stages where they will feel relieved and then at some point be resentful. Regretting their decision doesn’t mean that they always want you back. That will mean that your ex regrets dumping you because they are experiencing loneliness and anxiety at that moment. Otherwise, an ex regrets dumping you because they realized their mistakes and they might notice that you were the one....

How do you know if a guy is playing you? When you’re single, it can feel like all men are players. They’re the ones that’ll approach you at the bar, smooth-talk you at the networking event, or slide into your DMs. It can be incredibly frustrating, especially if you don’t notice that the man’s a player until it’s too late. Players get a bad rap because it seems like they’re deceiving or manipulating people....

He’s ignoring you. Now what? Should you press him further about what’s going on? Should you ignore him back and show him that you aren’t just waiting around for him to talk to you? When a man ignores you, it’s typical to feel frustrated, confused, angry, or even insecure. These complex feelings may be even more intensified if you two seemed to share a solid connection. As a result, you now might be second-guessing his intentions or wondering if you did something seriously wrong....

Are you looking for signs your ex still has feelings for you? Maybe they dumped you out of the blue, and now he/she is acting like they regret it. Unfortunately, people don’t always know what they want. They’ll get cold feet, realize you’re the one and start trying to worm their way back into your life. Or maybe you ditched your partner, and now you want them back. But before embarrassing yourself and admitting you were wrong, you want to know whether you still have a chance....

If you’re asking yourself these questions, you have someone specific on your mind! Fortunately, there are many ways to tell if someone is genuinely interested. Here are all the telltale signs a guy is flirting with you. How to Tell if a Guy Is Flirting With You It’s frustrating to have to guess, isn’t it? Maybe you’re interested in this guy, but you feel nervous about making the first move....