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Defining if texting someone else is cheating is quite a controversial topic. Every situation is different and every person texts someone else for different reasons. It all depends on the structure of the text and your personality, and how you’re attached to these text messages or the person. It’s difficult to deal with it especially if you’re in a committed relationship. Crossing each other’s boundaries and making one another uncomfortable with these texts is cheating....

At times you are “I want to call my ex” but on other days you aren’t sure if you should do it. Each one of us has wanted to initiate a call or even a text with an ex just because we missed them or thought that they still want us. Since every relationship is built differently and the breakup is manifested in different forms that’s why there are particular reasons why you should and shouldn’t call your ex....

You want to send a text to watch their reaction or you want to give them a call just to hear their voice. Yet, should you reach out to your ex and talk to them, is it a good idea? You should reach out to your ex only when you are healed and over your ex or you need one last answer. You can talk to your ex if there are signs that the relationship can be rekindled....

Deep within their core, they’re sad, insecure, shallow, and empty. How come such people are capable of causing such trouble outside of them? Their urge to escape that sense of sadness, shallowness, and insecurity makes narcissists go beyond their ways to attempt to fill that emptiness with anything superficial. As much as it is sad, narcissistic behavior can be highly toxic and damaging. A narcissist’s abuse and manipulation tactics are so subtle, so consistent, and so eventual that any of us could be prey to their trap....

The “No Contact” rule for leaving a narcissist means exactly what it states – No Contact, No emails, no texts, no late night dial and hang-ups, no drive-by’s, no contacting by proxy (via friends or family), no Facebook or Favorite Place stalking, no leaving notes on his/her car or apartment door, no sending letters……NO NOTHING. It is much harder than it sounds. It will be hard because after a break-up you want closure....

You probably know a guy is flirting with you if he compliments your appearance. But a guy can call a girl anything- cute, sexy, or beautiful, to name a few. So, if he calls you sexy, it must mean he really finds you drop-dead gorgeous, right? You aren’t just hot. You’re downright irresistible to him. Or, does it mean he’s objectifying you? Is he just treating you the same way he treats most beautiful women?...

Has the girl you’ve been crushing on called you cute? How about a girl you’re not interested in calling you cute? Has she left you wondering what to say when a girl calls you cute? If you have answered yes to any of these questions, not to worry, here are some of the things you could say back to the girl who calls you cute, “well, it looks like you’re rubbing off on me,” “thank you for the compliment,” or, “I doubt my day can get any better now....

You’ve kissed so many frogs…and they were, well, just frogs. But finally, you have kissed the right one- he is a real prince! He is too good to be true. You can’t believe your good fortune. Your best friend warned you not to trust him, said he was a “narcissist”…but what does she know? She doesn’t understand how perfect everything is between the two of you. It’s easy to fall in love with narcissists....

You and your paramour lean in for that magical first kiss, tilt your heads, close your eyes, and finally lock lips. Sparks fly and your body feels electric. For a brief moment, your eyes flutter open, only to see that your partner is staring right back at you, his eyes open throughout the entire romantic encounter. You might be a little freaked out. Who kisses like that, and why? It feels weird and what does it say about him?...

You’ve been in a solid relationship for a while, and you thought everything was going well until your partner’s behavior changed so drastically that the only question you could ask yourself every night was, “Why does my boyfriend hate me?” It’s a legitimate question considering the fact that he’s turned into Jekyll and Hyde. Three weeks ago you were the love of his life, but now, he’s literally repulsed by you....

As you read this, you are confused, you’re trying to figure everything out and you start to assume things. It’s not easy dealing with these mixed signals because it is time and soul-consuming too. So, your ex is trying to make you jealous because they want to achieve their goal. They would play these mind games just to boost their ego and try to win you over. Because they can’t have their feelings under their control, they want to fill that void by making you jealous!...

Texting him and not getting texts back for days is frustrating and makes you question if you are the problem, to begin with. No matter how much effort you put into your texts you’re still faced with the same deafening silence that makes your heart beat out of your chest. A guy won’t text back for the simplest reason starting from forgetting to the complexity of making sense of his own conflicted feelings about you....

Let me start by saying it’s perfectly okay to be gay. The problem is that society hasn’t fully accepted it yet, so there’s still shame and stigma attached to homosexuality. If you suspect a friend, family member, or even your boyfriend is gay but pretending to be straight, you may notice that he’s abusive towards women, homophobic, and watches gay porn. Some men are so worried about being judged by family and friends that they’ll pretend to be straight and even marry a woman to cover it up....

Ah, the early sweet stages of dating. Your heart is beating, you’re alive, all good, all lovely. You like this guy, I have no idea how you met him, but thank god the time for the first date has come, and thank god you’re asking yourself ‘how to impress a guy, or that guy on a date?’ On your first date, to be more precise. That should be easy, right?...

Need some flirty comebacks to make me? This article has you covered. We’ve compiled over 20 of the best ways to respond to “make me” to lead the conversation in your chosen direction. “Make me” is probably one of the most confusing—and potentially infuriating—responses you can get from another person. It immediately sounds confrontational, and you can feel like they’re ridiculing, second-guessing, or flat-out insulting you. It can be especially hurtful when it comes from a friend or family member....

According to research 1.6% of the American population suffers from borderline personality disorder (BPD). That means more than four million people in the country have been officially diagnosed with BPD. Whether you have been diagnosed with it, or you know someone who suffers from the condition, borderline personality disorder is a terrible mental illness and it can wreak havoc not only on the lives of those with the disorder, but on family members and loved ones who are exposed to it....

Are you looking for romantic questions to ask your partner? Maybe you and your partner talk to each other all the time. You think you know everything there is to know about them. You might even take your closeness for granted! But take a moment to ask yourself this- how emotionally intimate do things feel? How well do you really think you know your partner? What burning questions have you always wanted to ask?...

It might seem quite simple but there are a few rules and philosophies to follow so you can be successful. The first thing that you should do is understand male and female psychology. A man is designed to feel and think differently from a woman. Hence, what impacts how he will react if you don’t text him depends on his attachment style and personality. Sometimes, not texting him will hurt him and feel unappreciated and he won’t text back....

Nowadays you have to read between the lines, between the time you get the texts, combine the signals you get from the texts and when you meet up in the flesh, read their body language, and whatever it takes really, just to have a glimpse on how they’re feeling about you. Sometimes one waits for a text, other times the other, and then suddenly both are waiting for each other, and then you blink, and then it just gets super complicated....

How long should No Contact last for it to work? The growth of one person from a breakup differs a lot from the other. If you have gone through a toxic relationship then you can’t heal yourself the same as you do after having an amicable breakup. To get yourself back and to reflect on your situation the No Contact might last from 30 days, 45+ days, 60 days, 90, or permanently....