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Sometime in your career, you will run into a boss or co-worker who is so difficult, you will feel hopeless about ever finding a way to work with that person. That individual may well have a narcissistic personality disorder. Narcissistic personality is characterized by an unrealistic or inflated sense of self-importance, an inability to see the viewpoint of others, and hypersensitivity to criticism. Narcissists are preoccupied with grandiose fantasies and unrealistic plans....

If a guy calls you gorgeous, your first reaction might be to dismiss him. Is he just trying to flatter or seduce you because he wants just a good time? Or, depending on the context of your relationship, you may feel euphoric from this phrase. And if it’s from a stranger? You might feel unsafe or entirely creeped out. So when a guy calls a girl gorgeous, what exactly does it mean?...

Exposing a narcissist isn’t always easy. It can feel uncomfortable and cruel, especially if you love them. However, you may encounter a situation where it seems necessary to do this task. If you expose a narcissist, it’s important to be prepared for their backlash. As you probably know, narcissists don’t react favorably to any sense of perceived rejection. They see themselves as better than everyone else, and they also believe other people are lucky to be in their presence....

In almost every article you read on narcissism you will find plenty of references to “Narcissistic Supply”. What is it? Why do narcissists crave it? Narcissistic Supply is “a psychological concept which describes a type of admiration, interpersonal support or sustenance drawn by an individual from his or her environment. The term is typically used in a negative sense, describing a pathological or excessive need for attention or admiration that does not take into account the feelings, opinions or preferences of other people” (Wikipedia definition)....

So, you’ve met a great guy, and things seemed to be going really well until he started acting as if you don’t exist! Why is he ignoring me all of a sudden? What happened? There are several reasons why a man might suddenly ignore a girl, including he’s an introvert, needs space, or pulls away. Since you’re seriously crushing on him, you can’t let it go and want to know what’s going on....

Being in a relationship with a narcissist is emotionally draining, so when one breaks up with you, it can feel like a godsend. You’re finally free of the controlling behaviors, insulting comments, and constant gaslighting. Unfortunately for you, narcissists don’t like being alone; they’re always searching for a source of supply, someone that can make them feel better about themselves. Sometimes they’ll find a new source, but often they’ll come back to you....

Your trust is betrayed by the one person you love so dearly, and above all, by the one person, you could never lie to. You trusted him. You’re a strong woman for being able to gather strength and take him back – to save the relationship. I acknowledge your strength, and I cheer you for it! However, it’s also normal to be scared that he will cheat again. Despite the will and optimism to get the relationship back on its feet, you’re also more cautious when it comes to your heart, emotions, and well-being....

You will start to wonder if your ex is testing you or not being interested anymore. Their tendencies might be intentional or not, yet they aim to test the waters to some extent. No matter the reason, when an ex tries to test you, they would put you through impossible situations. Most of the time, you might tend to mix these signs with the signs of an ex wanting to get back....

Sometimes, they don’t seem to deal well with love either. They’ve got this interesting mechanism called pull-away. And yes, it drives us crazy! Okay, pulling away because of love is somewhat understandable. Love can indeed be an overwhelming cocktail of feelings, sensations, and emotions for some. But what about the early stages of a connection? Why would he pull away this early in the relationship? You’re not alone, sister! We’ve been there, and some of us are going through exactly what you’re going through....

In recent years, there has been an undeniable explosion of research and mainstream articles discussing toxic parents. We all know that toxic people can leave devastating impacts on their own children. Furthermore, we also know that emotional dysfunction can result in long-term effects on a child’s emotional well-being. But what about toxic grandparents and their role in the family system? How do controlling grandparents or selfish grandparents impact a child’s upbringing?...

Do narcissists enjoy kissing their partners? Yes, but not for the reasons you might think. So, you thought you had a fairy-tale romance, your soul mate, your prince charming. He’s charismatic, attentive, his light shines so brightly it could blind you. And then without any warning, it all falls apart and now, you’re an emotional wreck, giving him everything you’ve got in the hopes of resurrecting your dead relationship. Unfortunately, your magnetic physical connection was all a part of the plan....

Q: Hello: I had been in a relationship with a N for twenty-seven years. He has dumped me again for the ow(other woman)… You can not believe what i have been through and how it has left me feeling about myself. And this ow is a total train wreck with issues that you can not believe. Please can you expand on the ow and do they really end up staying with the ow and treating her good?...

This is a common philosophy in almost every woman’s mind. Yet is it true? Do guys follow this philosophy, or do they have one of their own? Social media has brought in a new era of communication. It is where many people get to know someone even before dating them. Before the internet existed, people would call over the telephone or meet up to talk and hang out. Life was easier back then because there was little doubt about whether a person liked you....

To get your ex back you should focus on your self-development, honesty, and transparency. Give both of you some space and time to reflect and work on your flaws. This might take some time. It might take a month, three months, up to a year or more! On the other hand, using manipulative methods or mind games can turn things around a little bit. Sometimes, it’s the fastest way to get your ex back....

Love is the greatest feeling one can have for another. Almost every woman dreams she will find someone who is in love with her. One who shows her how awesome she is and treats her like a queen. It isn’t easy to find a guy like that in today’s dating world. Are you with a guy and feeling a strong connection to him but wondering if he feels the same?...

Today’s dating scene is filled with app-based dating profiles, left and right swipes, and endless open liners. Even if you consider yourself to be a catch in terms of looks, personality, and more it can still be hard to read the signs when someone likes you. When it comes down to conventional dating, you typically find that the woman plays hard to get while the man does everything in his power to woo her....

Stopping Narcissistic Behavior I Don’t Want To Be a Narcissist Anymore Although most Narcissists don’t see their Narcissism as a real problem, some Narcissists can reflect on their own shortcomings. How To Stop Being a Narcissist? Is it possible to stop being a Narcissist? Can you heal from Narcissism? Can Narcissists Change? Can Narcissists change their own behavior? When you fall in love with a Narcissist, you will also encounter a part of them you really like....

It means that in both cases you or your partner use it to step back, reflect and work on yourself. What makes a partner or you go for no contact after a fight is either being hurt or not understood. Hence, they might use this distance to understand what are they feeling at the moment. Most of the time, this rule provides lifetime solutions. You will either grow your mistakes and fix your communication skills or you’ll look forward....

For those in a hurry… Here’s your “Should I text him?” flowchart: Texting should be flowing, as it is one of the forms of communication and healthy communication should be flowing naturally and unforced. I don’t suggest you believe or follow rules when it comes to interaction in relationships with others. It’s ok to text him first. When it comes to the question “Should I text him first or wait for him to text me?...

Should you tell a Narcissist they are a narcissist? Narcissists hurt you on every front and all you want to do is confront them and tell them they are a Narcissist so they can change their behavior. But is this even possible? Let’s start with an example. He was hoping for a moment of enlightenment, something that would make her change. But soon enough, the lies started. Or rather, he started noticing them....